Imagine yourself sitting in the garden, your bare feet touching the cool earth. The gentle rays of sunlight warm your bare skin and the occasional wind excites your pussy.
You are present in your body, embrace your sensations and know that you are the source of your pleasure.

Your Pleasure Queen is alive!

This, however, is NOT where I started. Rather picture a super busy scientist putting her relationship with her body and sexuality on the back seat. A woman whose connection to her body was practically non-existent neck-downwards and the brain highly active and constantly trying to solve the next problem in line.

Maybe you – like I did – believe that there are more important things in life than your pleasure and that a fulfilling sex life is a first-world-problem and you’d better try to help everyone first before taking care of yourself.

Or maybe you recognize the importance of your authentic sexuality, pleasure and self-love (Congratulations! Yes, pleasure IS important!), yet you don’t really know where and how to start becoming the Pleasure Queen you deserve to be.

I can absolutely relate. I myself had to built a new, empowering relationship with my sexuality over time.
That’s why I want to give you a framework which helped me a lot during my (still ongoing) explorations of my pleasure and sexuality.
Are you ready to take your first steps on the rewarding path of becoming the Queen of your authentic Pleasure and Sexuality?

1. Create a safe space and time. Lock the door, put music on if that helps you to relax, and tell your partner to not disturb you for an hour.
2. Invite curiosity and an exploratory mindset. Set an intention.
3. Touch yourself like you haven’t touched yourself before.
4. Move s l o w l y and notice how this changes your experience.
5. Know that everything is ok and allowed and nothing is a must. Try not to have expectations or an agenda, but to explore your body. There are no mistakes, only experiences.

This is for the woman who wants to put herself and her sexual desires first instead of always having the same kind of sex that doesn’t excite her any more. This is for the woman who can tell me her partner’s desires in her sleep, but is speechless when she is asked about her OWN desires.
This is for the woman who finally wants to claim her power and her pussy, knowing that they are the same.
You have the freedom to choose yourself, trust yourself and love yourself now.
With love,
Maria