Imagine yourself having sex feeling pure bliss and ecstasy. Every small touch electrifies your whole body, the smell of your partner(s) is your perfume of pleasure and turns you on more and more. All your senses are highly awake and perpetuate your pleasure. You are one with yourself, present to everything and you feel fully […]
I was dependent on pleasure. Pleasure used to be something I mostly received from my environment. On the other hand, by giving pleasure I was in the more powerful position. Through giving pleasure I was building a pleasure account in my head. I expected that the “pleasure debt” would naturally be repaid, so I rarely […]
After almost 20 years of training martial arts I quit with a heavy heart. During the very last training session these 15 parallels between sexuality and martial arts popped into my head. It felt like both my education in sexuality and in the martial arts finally found a way to show me that they are […]