You stay quiet. You stay dissatisfied. You stay unfulfilled. You get resentful. You want your partner to read your mind. You want things to change while you want to keep everything the same. You tell yourself that sex isn’t for you, that sex is overrated. Sex and pleasure should come naturally. You are not sexy anymore. You are getting old.

You lose contact to your sexual self and you lose contact to your body. The very body that enables you to take in so much sensual pleasure becomes your enemy. You demand pleasure and your body doesn’t deliver like it used to. It must be broken.

Your body isn’t broken. It’s you who doesn’t use your body to her full capacity. Your body senses a plethora of sensory input all the time. Your body knows how your pussy feels, she recognizes your partner’s smell of sweat, the quality your hands run over your body when you take a shower. Your body tastes the richness of the raspberry you pick from the bush and sees the beauty of your arm crease. However, you are not aware of this. 

You are focused on the meeting tomorrow. You wrinkle your nose when your partner doesn’t smell like deodorant. You rub your body clean in a monotonous and robotic motion. You are worried about a stranger’s judgment of you on your way to the gym. You demand your body parts down there to perform on your timeline. 

In other words: You have lost your connection to your own body.

You barely feel her any more.

That is the real reason why your sex life sucks.

This is why you need to stimulate yourself more and more to get the same outcome – be that salt on your food, sugar in your tea, or pleasure during sex, let alone in your day to day life!

Your body isn’t broken. You aren’t broken. You just don’t use your body and her resources as skillfully as it would be possible.

Get closer, more intimate, more loving, more connected to your body and pleasure will come back to you in no time. Promise.